There's over 45 videos on side control alone on ROL TV.  From escapes to transitions to attacks, it has content for both the beginner and advance student.👍

Matt, I'd love to tell you that the need to compare yourself to your training partners eventually goes away...but it doesn't. It is going to be a continual battle to resist the urge to do so. 

I used to when I first started but it would cause problems with the family.