I think the topic of training and life balance is so underrated and a discussion that should be had with new students.
If you are in this for the long haul and had a significant other or family at home you need to find a way to fit BJJ into your family's life in a way that works and doesn't create constant tension. This tension often leads to people quitting. There will be weeks where you can go a few times and then there may be a week where you can't go at all, and that's ok. You'll need that home support if plan to do this for more than 1 year.
Yes, my approach has changed as I realized the above. Some weeks my training or mat connection comes from helping with my son's class or his wrestling program and nothing directly for myself. That's just the stage of life. The mats are always there, the time with your family isn't.
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29 Jun 07:47
Great question Pete!I can say for me personally teaching gave me the ability to answer questions. Your level of understanding, problem solving, and the ability to think quickly all speed up a little bit when you have to run the class. That was my biggest take away.
A hidden benefit can be seeing all the behind the scenes work that it takes to make a program successful.
I don't think everyone should teach regularly. I agree there are great practitioners that just make poor teachers. On the flipside there are great teachers that just aren't the best if they go out and compete. I've also seen blackbelts who one on one are amazing but in a group setting it just doesn't come across. Aside from what was already mentioned personality is a huge driver of being a great teacher.